A Quiet Kid’s First Day of College… July 25, 2008
Posted by Jared James in College Info, Personal Development.Tags: college, college preparation, community college, first day of college, nervous
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Hello there,
As I look back on my college experience, I begin to think about what it is that I actually expected.
I remember being nervous and afraid of getting lost on campus.
“What if I don’t find my class?” “What happens if I’m late on the first day?”
These were questions that were consistently popping into my head days before my first day at college. Then, the first day came and things got real…
As I walked onto campus, all I had was a map of the campus, a schedule of my classes, and a nervous energy rattling through my entire being. I was doing all of this while at the same time, trying to appear calm and confident, like I knew exactly where I was. I think the first few times I had to look down at the campus map people realized (and I did too) that this really was my first day.
I remember seeing people walking at what seemed like lightning speed to their classes. Then, I looked around and I saw people in groups of people talking with each other as if they had been friends for years. I’ve never felt so alone and out of place.
I realize now that this could have easily been avoided with some easy preparation throughout the summer before my first day. But hindsight is 20/20, right?
Well actually, through my experience, I now have the opportunity to help new students cut out the tension that I went through and go straight to the confident, smiling, relaxed student that I became by the end of my first semester.
I see now that if I just simply went to the school a few days before class started, I could walk around the campus and get comfortable with the environment. This would have helped me tremendously on the first day.
Also, if someone would have told me that college students are much more laid back than high school seniors, I may have felt more comfortable asking somebody for directions to my class.
I’ve seen and heard stories about freshmen in high school getting trashed and if that was happening in high school, what would they possibly be doing in college?!?
But as it turns out, it is really a much more friendly environment on college campus. The people are friendly, they are more laid back, and they are almost always willing to help you if you ask them for it.
So my mission here is to help new college students take simple steps to prepare properly for this incredible experience called college. I assure you, it really can be simple, easy, and fun.
My business partner Jaycob and I have had over 8 combined years of college experience to back us up with this. We have gone through the process, we have taken advantage of the free services that most colleges offer, and we have learned how to make the most out of this incredible experience.
We are here to help show the way to incoming college students, so that they don’t have to discover everything the hard way.
I will say this in closing…
There is information out there to help you build confidence, relax, make friends, study effectively, imagine yourself to be a college graduate so that you ensure your success, and just about everything else you can think of!
We have done a lot of work to remember what we had trouble with when we were starting college and we have written down a lot of information about how to help people.
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I wish you the best experience possible!
Sincerely,
Jared James
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Learn How to Add Value to Your Business June 19, 2008
Posted by Jared James in Personal Development, Uncategorized.Tags: add value, adding value, business, develop skills, ebooks, how to, marketing, new skills, skills
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Hello everyone,
“Adding value will increase your business”
That is a statement that I have heard upwards of a dozen times within the past few weeks just by casually watching videos and reading books on success. I’m sure I have read or heard this message before, but it has only recently stood out at me so clearly.
I know adding value is good, but what does adding value mean? Being more valuable. Yah I understand that, but how can anyone add more value to their business? Aww, that’s the million dollar question.
I have recently stumbled across a realization about how a person in any business can add value and become more valuable. Here’s the key…
To become more valuable, you must learn and develop more skills!
This may sound obvious, but allow me to explain it so that you can implement the technique into your life. Let’s say that you are an author and you create ebooks online. If you can write quality ebooks that are full of information that thousands or even millions of people can use to make their lives easier or more enjoyable, then you’re doing a good job. You will obviously make millions right? Not necesarily. Here’s why…
Even if you have the cure for cancer, if people don’t know what you have to offer them and they don’t see how your insights will help them, then you aren’t of any value to them in that respect. What you need to know how to do is convey your message and have them understand how your product will help them improve their life. Another tip: Tell them what might happen if they don’t order your product. That might just scare them enough to grab their attention.
The point here is that if you are a great writer, you won’t necessarily become a best-seller. You are much more likely to become a best-seller if you have marketing skills that will help you promote your book or business. Marketing is simply the art of getting your message across to people. Everyone is marketing themselves on a daily basis. People make judgements about you whenever you go out, so wouldn’t it make sense to go out knowing this?
As you continue to read these words, you are beginning to understand the importance of marketing. You don’t necessarily have to “care about the way you look” as much as you “care about the message you are sending”. If you are in business and you are looking for partners or friends or investors, wouldn’t it help to present yourself in a way so that people that look at you get the impression that you are a businessman?
I mean there’s a reason why people wear suits to meet clients. It is about the message they are sending.
We are getting off on a tangent here, but the point I am making is that learning to market yourself as well as your business or product is a key step in making it successful.
A nephew of marketing is selling. Selling is another valuable talent that it would be good to learn. I know many people don’t like the idea of selling, but a real salesperson is simply being honest about their product and helping the potential buyer realize how this product will improve their quality of life.
Whether it be marketing, selling, networking, public speaking, designing, or a wide variety of other skills that you can learn, it is very important to develop more than one skill.
You need to have more than one skill in this world today.
More and more people are losing their jobs and they are stuck without a job. Why? Because they don’t have a variety of skills to fall back on.
I believe one of the most important skills you can have is the skill to motivate and inspire people. If you can develop this skill, you will never be out of work. People always need to be motivated and inspired to do great things.
Like they say, to receive, first you must give.
So give motivation and inspiration to receive it. If you find yourself not being motivated to achieve something, then look around and find somebody in a similar situation. Ask them what they what to achieve in their life and then motivate them to take action and inspire them to make a positive change in this world. When you do this, you will see that your motivation is back. Why? Because you gave it to someone else. The point being that…
You can’t give away something that you yourself don’t have.
So I hope you enjoyed this blog. I went on a little longer than I thought and I covered a few more topics that I thought I would, but I got in the zone and just kept typing. I used to be a transcriber, so once they fingers start going on this keyboard, there’s no telling where they will take me.
Stay tuned for more valuable information from me, Mr. Jared James
Sincerely,
Jared James